See for something to be an act of kindness both sides must agree. I can declare to love someone even if they don't love me back. (Google friendzone) But I can not declare to be kind without someone to be kind to. Kindness is only a concept if it’s a solo job. You can not cheat kindness. You can not hurt another in kindness. Kindness takes two sides a giver, and a receiver, and when both sides agree, it truly becomes magic.